Yelling On The Internet!!!

yelling-computerI’ve been noticing something lately when wandering around the internet world:  People aren’t very nice to each other.

Sometimes a good story or article will show up on Facebook or whatever and folks just start throwing flaming darts at each other.  The “comments” area just lights up with derogatory words, generalizations and hateful garbage.  There are certainly fair opinions out there, but man, folks are snakes sometimes!

Many times, the word-spitting isn’t even about important stuff!  For example, the weather has been bad here in Portland, so I’ve been reading up on forecasts and such.  People even get snippy on those comments, putting down the weather man and sniping each other with “Mr. Smartypants” answers.  Another example is when I was researching some truck parts….dudes started tearing each other apart, belittling one another and calling each other stupid.  Pretty silly really.

I’m sure that this has gone on for a long time, but it sure seems like things have gotten worse lately.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been tempted to join the mudslinging at times.  There have been situations where I’ve had to quickly delete a comment already typed out to avoid saying something stupid.  At the time, it’s hard to hold back and respond in love, but I’ve never regretted it when I have.

A couple of months ago, a friend of mine posted a bible verse that I liked.  I saw that there were some comments about it and for some reason, I decided to take a look.  There was a guy who was obviously very upset about God and some words were thrown around pretty harshly.  I felt compelled to respond in a loving and positive way.  Basically, I told the guy that I loved him and that God loved him and that he’s definitely entitled to his own opinions.  I didn’t challenge him at all.  His response was full of love and respect, even a little humor.  The conversation ended well and he even removed some of the “F Bombs” from his comments.  I didn’t do anything fancy or complicated…I just loved him.  Super encouraging!

The truth is that the world keeps getting darker and the need to be a light is becoming more and more important.  Although we ALL need to treat each other respectfully, I beg all folks in particular who claim to follow Jesus to PLEASE act and respond in love.  I’m speaking to myself as well here.  It’s ok to have opinions and disagree with others, but we have the opportunity to add flavor to sometimes bad tasting situations.  Let’s love and love well.

I also encourage all of us to put our phones and computers down and relate to one another.  We were meant to be together friends, not sit cowardly behind computer screens, developing hate-mongering callouses on our fingers.  A hot cup of coffee and an open heart could do wonders for us all, no matter what differences we have.

For now, I’ll keep hoping for a weather blog not laced with arguments and put-downs…..I’m not holding my breath though.

Type on with love friends.

God Bless,



God’s Provision and a Pendleton Blanket

pendleton-blanketIt was a cool, fall-like day and I had the nagging itch to go for a run.  It was a weekend, so I decided to jog the trail on the opposite side of the river….a typical weekend thing that I like to do.  It’s pretty scenic and quiet…a good time to reflect on life and hang out with God.  So I laced up and hit the road.

As I was jogging down the path, breathing in the crisp air, my eyes and heart were drawn to a gal walking towards me.  She was pushing a grocery cart full of cans, clothes, food….basically her whole life stuffed in a basket being pushed with feeble, weather-worn hands.  As I passed her, I smiled and said hello, but I don’t think she noticed me….she was probably used to folks turning the other way or becoming conveniently preoccupied with their phones or whatever.

I continued down the path towards the end, where I usually turn around and head back the way I came.  My steps had a nice rhythm going and my body was warm, my blood pumping pretty good.  Through the rush of exercise came a gentle whisper in my soul….this whisper basically told me that if I happen to see the gal on my route back, that I need to stop and talk to her.  It was like one of those butterflies in the stomach feelings.  Almost like my whole being was on alert with the anticipation of seeing her, wondering what God had planned.

Guess what?!  As I followed the bend of the path, there she was, patiently pushing her cart, heading to who knows where.  So I listened to the whisper, or the Holy Spirit as I like to call Him and I stopped to talk.  I said something like “for some reason, I feel like I need to talk to you.  You mind if I tag along for a bit?”  She didn’t seem to mind at all, so I just walked with her for a bit.  I found out that her name was Karen and we talked about her life, faith and what it was like to be homeless, surviving off of the land and trash cans and shelters and hand outs and whatever she could get her hands on.  She gave me some tips on what trees were best to sleep under and other interesting stuff.  She was pretty street smart and really nice.

I didn’t have much to give her since I was out running and all.  The only thing that I had was the sweatshirt that I was wearing, so I gave it to her.  She seemed happy with it, but I wasn’t….I wanted to give her more.  So, after we parted ways, I sprinted back to my house (about 1 mile away) hoping that I could grab some food and clothes really fast and meet her at the end of the path in time.  So when I got home, I made an announcement to my wife and 2 boys that we were to quickly grab a bunch of food, some clothes, blankets, toiletries and whatever else was available so we could complete the mission of finding Karen.  After everything was gathered, we hopped in the truck and drove back to the river, where the path ended….guess what?!  We found her!

We basically just pulled up next to her and I reminded her of who I was and that my family wanted to give her a few more things.  We all participated in loading up her grocery cart with items that seemed pretty basic to us, but probably were necessities for her.  Along with the stuff that we brought from our house, I also noticed a couple of blankets in the back of our truck, so I gave those to her as well.  She seemed pleased, we said our goodbyes and that was it.  It was great.

Well, later I found out that one of the blankets that I gave her on impulse was a nice Pendleton blanket given to us as a wedding gift.  OOPS!!!  My wife wasn’t mad or anything, just bummed that I chose that blanket to give away and I can understand that.  My bad.

Here’s the cool part of this whole story….a couple of weeks ago, a family friend dropped by the house to deliver some Christmas gifts.  Really nice of her.  Guess what one of the gifts was?!  A BRAND NEW PENDLETON BLANKET!  My wife had told her this story in passing a while ago and our friend felt led to replace the blanket that we gave away.  Isn’t that awesome?!

I was so blessed not only by our friend’s generosity, but that God used her to remind me of His provision.  That blanket meant a lot to my wife and He replaced it.  What a practical, yet powerful thing.

God’s pretty creative and He never ceases to amaze me.  I had no idea that this story would blossom from a simple run on a fall day.  I hope Karen got some good use out of the stuff we gave her.  One thing’s for sure; we both scored some new blankets out of the deal!  Wink wink.


God Bless,